Sunday, June 29, 2008

The Moment I/We Have All Been Waiting For!




I apologize to all of you anxious readers out there. =) We've been a bit off-schedule, so we had a very late dinner and just finished a bottle and lullabies. The tears are just now really coming full force as I look at my most beautiful DAUGHTER asleep next to my bed.

Ironically, our meeting room was a smoking lounge (very fitting to bring babies). I passed a group of families on the way who had just received babies. I learned upstairs that there are two or three families from the Netherlands, our two from the States, and another from Belgium was with us in the room to do paperwork. It seemed that I filled out the same forms I'd already sent in months ago, but who cares - sign, sign, sign - where's the baby?!

After what seemed like hours (but was really close to 5:30), we heard babies in the hallway and my heart just started racing. I knew her in an instant. (Sorry, I don't have the right cord to upload video from my camcorder, so you'll have to settle for stills for now.)

Finishing paperwork

There she is!!!

Mama and LiSha










I was actually a bit worried that she didn't cry, as it would show she knows something is wrong and that she misses her foster family. But she mainly just looked all around, wide-eyed. She missed her nap today, so it wasn't very long until her head started bobbing. She did cry just a little bit then, but it was more of a whimper and big alligator tears. Then she was out cold.

They needed to take the family picture for the paperwork, but she has to be awake. The guide and three nannies all tried everything to wake her up, but there was nothing doing. Touching her face, moving her head, trying to make her stand - nothing. She sleeps like her mama! (Ironically, she awoke as soon as we opened our room door.)



I was able to sit down with some nannies from the orphanage and ask some questions. We're back to an old pronunciation, as I've now been told is is indeed with the sh- sound, "sha," not "sa." She had a 3 year old foster sister and a younger foster brother. She only takes a few steps, so she's not really walking. We tried tonight and she's pretty shaky, so perhaps I'll get to share that first moment.

I'll have to share a few more pictures tomorrow, and share about our interesting day on the city streets searching for formula. I am so very, very, tired.

But I just wanted to point out to the wonderful ladies at my church shower, my beads were with me along with your prayers, so that you were all present in spirit with us with your kind and loving words of support.

Thank you all so much for your prayers and encouragement. Please keep them coming! Off to let my eyes finally slam close. But first, a parting look at the most beautiful girl in the world....

Thursday, May 29, 2008

$275,000 donated to Steven Curtis Chapman’s adoption organization

From today's Tennessean headlines...

By BEVERLY KEEL
Celebrity columnist

Shaohannah’s Hope has received about $275,000 in donations since the May 21 death of Maria Sue Chapman, 5.

Her parents, Christian singer Steven Curtis Chapman and his wife, Mary Beth, had requested that in lieu of flowers, contributions be sent to Shaohannah’s Hope, the non-profit organization they founded to provide adoption assistance, awareness and orphan care. The Chapmans adopted three children from China, including Maria.

Maria died after being accidentally hit by an SUV in the driveway of the family’s Williamson County home. She was the youngest of the Chapman’s six kids.

“It’s really, obviously, secondary to the mourning that is going on, but we know that this ministry will be a source of healing for the Chapmans as we carry out the mission,” says executive director Scott Hasenbalg. “The outpouring of support has been incredible and we’re grateful.

The Chapmans will work with the board of directors to best decide how to spend the money.

“We know it will be put to good use because the stakes are too high not to,” he says.

“We are now rolling up our sleeves and beginning to work hard so we don’t miss out on ensuring that we are good stewards of the money that people have so generously given to us.”

While appreciative of the donors' overwhelming generosity, the staff is still coming to terms with Maria's tragic death.

“We are all just trying to put one foot in front of another. Maria was like a little sister to many of us. We have a culture of family within our ministry. We want to honor her. We want to honor God and we want to honor the Chapman family and really go from success to significance because Maria's life was significant to all of us."

Thursday, May 01, 2008

Gone Public!!

You're all (well, anyone still left out there) welcome to jump onto the other blog now as it's public! C'mon over to Making Room for Mallory to meet my beautiful daughter!!!!

Friday, April 25, 2008

Check the Ticker

For those who haven't ventured to learn about my new blog yet...check out the helpful hint in my new Lilypie ticker added above.

Hoping to open the private blog very soon!

Saturday, April 05, 2008

Mallory Blog Invites

In case no one checks the previous comments, for those commenters requesting invites, I don't have your email addresses, so please leave them in the comments or send them to goneartoorphans@gmail.com. Thanks!

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Making the Move - An Announcement

I know I mentioned doing this before but never followed through, but Mallory/adoption-related posts are now being moved over to a private blog for the time being. It will be password protected for the next few months for purposes explained on that blog. I will be sending Blogger invitations out including access to that blog. If you do not receive one and would like to follow along, and if I know you personally (whether IRL or online), please email me or leave a comment and I will include you in the list of permitted readers.

I'm starting the blog with a bang with some amazing news, so I hope to see you over there! I will continue to use this blog for general posting.

See you over there!

Show Hope

I'm behind on posting, as usual. I went to Chattanooga last weekend to volunteer at the Shaohannah's Hope booth at the Steven Curtis Chapman concert. It was awesome! We participated in the Change for Orphans drive and $2000 in change was collected that night! An anonymous donor matched it, so a local family was given a Shaohannah's Hope grant for $4000 at the end of the concert.


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It was also great to meet other families who have adopted or are in the process like I am. And to speak with others about adoption. We offered information at the table not only on how to help Shaohannah's Hope, but on adoption. It was encouraging to meet others who want to adopt but were discouraged about the finances, but learned that night that there are organizations that can help.

Here are some clips from Steven speaking (sorry for the choppiness; I was using my digital camera and my hand wasn't too steady):


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Photo Sharing - Video Sharing - Photo Printing - Photo Books



Photo Sharing - Video Sharing - Photo Printing - Photo Books


Steven chokes up all the adoptive families as he sings "When Love Takes You In" to a video of Shaohannah's Hope grant recipients.


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I am indebted to Shaohannah's Hope for helping me bring my Mallory home. I hope I can give back to them someday as they have given to me.

Tuesday, March 04, 2008

This Blog Has Been Hijacked...

She didn't give me any Fancy Feast with my Science Diet this week and moves too much in her sleep so I get kicked outta' bed, so I'm taking over her blog.

It's a good thing she uses a Mac; I'd have never figured out how to use a PC.

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But I sure wish she had a mouse....